It’s no surprise for many military families – my dad is in the Air Force – when they receive the anticipated PCS (permanent change of station) orders. They were getting antsy after two or three years in one place.

In December, my family moved from Florida to Kansas in the midst of the Covid-19 pandemic, which was both exhilarating and nerve-wracking. Staying in hotels and coming in contact with strangers was not something I thought I’d ever be so concerned about.

I started remote learning at Derby in December, with everyone else.

Not being able to meet anyone face-to-face at a new school is extremely difficult and discouraging at some times. I’ve learned a lot about the importance of socialization and have become very grateful for everyone who talks to me and makes me feel welcome at Derby.

Of course, there’s a lot of anxiety and added stress that comes from moving around a lot. I’ve made it a habit not to get too close to my friends, because I know I’ll just be leaving in not too long.

But, I’m almost a senior. I know that everyone around me will be spreading across the country in search of what they want to do with their lives.

Still, I wouldn’t trade living in a military family for anything. Moving to places such as Germany, Colorado, and even Kansas has made me especially close to my mom, dad, and sisters.

The aphorism “grow where you’re planted” has taken on new meaning to me and I think it really sums up military life. It’s important to treat each new place as a new opportunity and make the most out of every move.